"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I Settle Down?

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SinJester

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Recently I have been pimpin' it up and working on my game. I have improved so much its crazy, scoring all along the way. On New Years I got with a girl that I was good friends with. Don't know how that happened. Her friends came up and told me that she liked me. We ended up fully makin' out on 12 o'clock.

We met up again later that night and it happened again. I was all over her but she loved it. Just felt right.

Now I'm really sure she likes me and I'm not sure if I should settle down or not. She is a really nice person but she is only above average. The thing is I know I could have anyone I want, I've been scoring chicks so hot that every guy I've talked to was jealous or congratulated me. So do I want to go for this girl?

Also that means I wont be able to game girls anymore, when I've got a few lined up and there's so much I want to try.

I need the LTR experianced badly anyway. Probably more than general 'game' as I think I might have that covered now. Being friends just cuts so much awkard crap out as we already know each other.

I think I'm gonna go for it and/or see what happens. I've been asking for a LTR for so long I probably shouldn't throw this away just on the grounds of a ego trip.

What do you guys think?

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Strange thing is I put NO dj game into this girl at all. None. Nothing. Came out of nowhere. But then some say the best ones do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why not settle down for a bit?
see if its what u want
if it isnt you can always break up with her or just tell her you need a break for a bit to think
 
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it really depends on how old you are bud, i know guys in their 18's that tell me all the time "Dude i want to settle down and possibly marry her!!" i tell them of course thats great and they should go for it, but don't spend all your time on just one girl especially if your young.. if you believe strongly in your heart that she's the one for you bro go for it. but don't spend a time you could have been having fun to settle down with someone and then end up hurting.
i tell my friends all the time... after high school long relationships happen more often.

but thats just me :)
 
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Don't settle down, you'll regret it.
 
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SinJester

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I'm 16 so marriage isn't even in my vocabulary at the moment. When I say settle down I just mean get a girlfriend. I do need LTR experiance.

@Rata Blanca: why?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonAlan456

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why not do it
if u see a a dif girl ud rather go out w then dump her
 
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