"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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should i pursue this yearbook message?

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"kyle-
wow thank you for being in my study or i would have died. Have an amazing summer and even better time at college, you're lucky to be getting out of here. you're such a cool person and its so easy to talk to you-you're an awesome guy-call me xxx xxx xxxx"

^^ that's the message ^^

it kinda seems like a friendzone...is it worth pursuing? i really never stepped up the kino with this girl because i never realized that i should seize the moment--shortly after she was changed out of my study. my gut says that i should call this girl when i want, but i just wanted to post her to make sure i'm not wasting my time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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you can't have too many female friends. She just might have a friend who is a knock out that you'll want to hook up with......
 

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yea damn...:( i guess it could work as a friendship. just wanted to make sure the message was devoid of any sexual interest before i forgot about her
 

blinkwatt

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no man sorry to burst your bubble but it looks as if you two are friends and thats it.just take her up on her number and see if you could change stuff.
 

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Originally posted by blinkwatt
no man sorry to burst your bubble but it looks as if you two are friends and thats it.just take her up on her number and see if you could change stuff.
yea, thanks. she's a cool girl so i could see bieng friends with her. i sorta doubted any sexual interest with the little amount of interest i showed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TinyFzzyKiwi

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I've got a couple like that, one that's possibly a prospect, the other 2 are just friends and that's all I'm really interested in with them anway. (they arn't hot, but could easily have hot friends I havn't met). I might call them to hang out, and I might not. I probably should, but I havn't yet.
 

The Comeback Kid

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Yeah - it sounds like a "friend" to me. Especially where she says "it's so easy to talk to you".

I may as well get prepped for this type of thing b/c some girl I have a little interest in really wants to sign my yearbook on Friday, the last day of school (we haven't had a school day since last week). My money is that it will say something close to that. I also didn't write anything real "flirty" at the time because I had two minutes to write it and I had just sprained my ankle pretty badly.

Oh well...
 

UltimateScoundrel

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What the hell man, call her. Who knows? Maybe with this girl that **** means she digs you and wants to take a ride on little kiz.
 

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Originally posted by kiz
"kyle-
wow thank you for being in my study or i would have died. Have an amazing summer and even better time at college, you're lucky to be getting out of here. you're such a cool person and its so easy to talk to you-you're an awesome guy-call me xxx xxx xxxx"

^^ that's the message ^^

it kinda seems like a friendzone...is it worth pursuing? i really never stepped up the kino with this girl because i never realized that i should seize the moment--shortly after she was changed out of my study. my gut says that i should call this girl when i want, but i just wanted to post her to make sure i'm not wasting my time.
She wants it. Give her a call.
 

Kidd

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Stop thinking you're in the friend zone.

You never really know till you go on a date.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: should i pursue this yearbook message?

Originally posted by Luscious
She wants it. Give her a call.
 

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call her, but dont act desparate. maybe in a friendly tone just ask her to go to the movies and hang out or sumthing like that. (cause sumtimes friends become more then friends):D
 

WesCottII

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Originally posted by kiz
"kyle-
wow thank you for being in my study or i would have died. Have an amazing summer and even better time at college, you're lucky to be getting out of here. you're such a cool person and its so easy to talk to you-you're an awesome guy-call me xxx xxx xxxx"

^^ that's the message ^^

it kinda seems like a friendzone...is it worth pursuing? i really never stepped up the kino with this girl because i never realized that i should seize the moment--shortly after she was changed out of my study. my gut says that i should call this girl when i want, but i just wanted to post her to make sure i'm not wasting my time.
How much more incentive you need?
 

undesputable

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post the #, ill give it a call and wax the ass for you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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