I thought you were going to "end" it with this last email, but you didn't, you sought a reply and fell right into the trap as others have pointed out. Why does she deserve an email from you asking how she's doing? You shouldn't care, not in the slightest.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Should I proceed with this one?
- Thread starter Jeremymichael
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jeremymichael
Senior Don Juan
Hi everyone,
Guess what I got another email, one month after my last one. She said she had moved to the one of the islands off the British coast. She asked me how work is going and to pass on her regards to my work colleagues. Finished with a x (kiss)
Should I bother to reply?
Many thanks,
Jez
Guess what I got another email, one month after my last one. She said she had moved to the one of the islands off the British coast. She asked me how work is going and to pass on her regards to my work colleagues. Finished with a x (kiss)
Should I bother to reply?
Many thanks,
Jez
jophil28
Master Don Juan
THis is just dragging on and on and going nowhere with this chick..Jeremymichael said:Hi everyone,
Guess what I got another email, one month after my last one. She said she had moved to the one of the islands off the British coast. She asked me how work is going and to pass on her regards to my work colleagues. Finished with a x (kiss)
Should I bother to reply?
Many thanks,
Jez
MY guess is that she has broken up with her last chump a while ago and is looking to you to fill the vacancy.
Now, do not be getting your condoms all warmed up just yet because she has very low sexual interest in you. YOu are being contacted by her because she has a gap in her current social structure and YOU are being drawn in to fill some of the vacant space....she also wants someone to chat with via email to have her feel still connected now that she lives on some obsure rock with a million sheep and some inbred folk with strange accents in the middle of whatever ocean..
Ultimately you are being recruited to play the role of her 'male girlfriend penpal '.
Jeremymichael
Senior Don Juan
I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Here -Jeremymichael said:I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?
" Hey ___ hows it going out there with the sheep and all those cousins and uncle daddies. How do you tell them apart ?
Saturday night must be a blast... mutton roastoffs and irish dancing and sheep pat tossing ?.
What do you do for fun when the rest of the island is asleep ? Knitting by candlelight ?
DO you have enough electricity? You took a month to write me last time so I figure that it must have taken that long for the power batteries to charge up through all that rain and fog ...ha ha !
See ya.
Jeremy.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Jeremymichael
Senior Don Juan
hahaha...like it.
Apparently she is living in the channel islands - sounds pretty boring. I'm almost falling asleep thinking about this. Can you imagine what the local bar must be like?. Deadrie and Ken playing shove halfpenny near the fire and Fred drinking his pint of mild next to the pickled gerkins. Chip shop closing at 6pm and the local happy shopper selling a few mouldy cabbages?!. Finally walking in some sheep droppings as you head back home to the wooden hut
I think even that would get me emailing someone or anybody and droning on about very little.
Apparently she is living in the channel islands - sounds pretty boring. I'm almost falling asleep thinking about this. Can you imagine what the local bar must be like?. Deadrie and Ken playing shove halfpenny near the fire and Fred drinking his pint of mild next to the pickled gerkins. Chip shop closing at 6pm and the local happy shopper selling a few mouldy cabbages?!. Finally walking in some sheep droppings as you head back home to the wooden hut
I think even that would get me emailing someone or anybody and droning on about very little.
>> I'm almost falling asleep thinking about this. >>
Dwell on something else. She's not dwelling on you.
>> I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?>>
That seems to be an oxymoron.
Look, she lives far away, she writes intermittently just to stay in orbit, never showed true interest in you. She is what we call
"A Time Waster".
If you wish to be civil, reply once for every three of her emails.
Dwell on something else. She's not dwelling on you.
>> I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?>>
That seems to be an oxymoron.
Look, she lives far away, she writes intermittently just to stay in orbit, never showed true interest in you. She is what we call
"A Time Waster".
If you wish to be civil, reply once for every three of her emails.