I thought you were going to "end" it with this last email, but you didn't, you sought a reply and fell right into the trap as others have pointed out. Why does she deserve an email from you asking how she's doing? You shouldn't care, not in the slightest.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Should I proceed with this one?
- Thread starter Jeremymichael
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jeremymichael
Senior Don Juan
Hi everyone,
Guess what I got another email, one month after my last one. She said she had moved to the one of the islands off the British coast. She asked me how work is going and to pass on her regards to my work colleagues. Finished with a x (kiss)
Should I bother to reply?
Many thanks,
Jez
Guess what I got another email, one month after my last one. She said she had moved to the one of the islands off the British coast. She asked me how work is going and to pass on her regards to my work colleagues. Finished with a x (kiss)
Should I bother to reply?
Many thanks,
Jez
jophil28
Master Don Juan
THis is just dragging on and on and going nowhere with this chick..Jeremymichael said:Hi everyone,
Guess what I got another email, one month after my last one. She said she had moved to the one of the islands off the British coast. She asked me how work is going and to pass on her regards to my work colleagues. Finished with a x (kiss)
Should I bother to reply?
Many thanks,
Jez
MY guess is that she has broken up with her last chump a while ago and is looking to you to fill the vacancy.
Now, do not be getting your condoms all warmed up just yet because she has very low sexual interest in you. YOu are being contacted by her because she has a gap in her current social structure and YOU are being drawn in to fill some of the vacant space....she also wants someone to chat with via email to have her feel still connected now that she lives on some obsure rock with a million sheep and some inbred folk with strange accents in the middle of whatever ocean..
Ultimately you are being recruited to play the role of her 'male girlfriend penpal '.
Jeremymichael
Senior Don Juan
I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Here -Jeremymichael said:I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?
" Hey ___ hows it going out there with the sheep and all those cousins and uncle daddies. How do you tell them apart ?
Saturday night must be a blast... mutton roastoffs and irish dancing and sheep pat tossing ?.
What do you do for fun when the rest of the island is asleep ? Knitting by candlelight ?
DO you have enough electricity? You took a month to write me last time so I figure that it must have taken that long for the power batteries to charge up through all that rain and fog ...ha ha !
See ya.
Jeremy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Jeremymichael
Senior Don Juan
hahaha...like it.
Apparently she is living in the channel islands - sounds pretty boring. I'm almost falling asleep thinking about this. Can you imagine what the local bar must be like?. Deadrie and Ken playing shove halfpenny near the fire and Fred drinking his pint of mild next to the pickled gerkins. Chip shop closing at 6pm and the local happy shopper selling a few mouldy cabbages?!. Finally walking in some sheep droppings as you head back home to the wooden hut
I think even that would get me emailing someone or anybody and droning on about very little.
Apparently she is living in the channel islands - sounds pretty boring. I'm almost falling asleep thinking about this. Can you imagine what the local bar must be like?. Deadrie and Ken playing shove halfpenny near the fire and Fred drinking his pint of mild next to the pickled gerkins. Chip shop closing at 6pm and the local happy shopper selling a few mouldy cabbages?!. Finally walking in some sheep droppings as you head back home to the wooden hut
I think even that would get me emailing someone or anybody and droning on about very little.
>> I'm almost falling asleep thinking about this. >>
Dwell on something else. She's not dwelling on you.
>> I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?>>
That seems to be an oxymoron.
Look, she lives far away, she writes intermittently just to stay in orbit, never showed true interest in you. She is what we call
"A Time Waster".
If you wish to be civil, reply once for every three of her emails.
Dwell on something else. She's not dwelling on you.
>> I see what you are saying. Shall I reply?>>
That seems to be an oxymoron.
Look, she lives far away, she writes intermittently just to stay in orbit, never showed true interest in you. She is what we call
"A Time Waster".
If you wish to be civil, reply once for every three of her emails.