"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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should I practice kino on chicks I work with?

avrilishot

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Will recently I got a job at walmart and anyways theres some really hot chicks there, and i never met them yet but im thinking about doing it real soon. anyways I am kinda new to kino, and so I was wondering would you do kino on chicks you work with? also I dont work close at all to these chicks. I work in the back and some of them work in the front area of the store. and when I have to put things to the front I see them. so help me out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flexion_

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Probably not a good idea to practice touching women you work with - asking for legal stuff.
 

Marlimus

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We call it kino, HR will call it sexual harrassment.
Agreed. I would not go there.
 

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With so many women to pickup, stay away fom the ones at your place of employment.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SELF-MASTERY

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When I was younger I smacked a female friend on the bottom with a newspaper and got in trouble because some old hag thought it was wrong.......
 

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harassment should not be an issue if you do it right.... most initial kino is above the waist... nowhere near the butt. and yes, smacking a chick you hardly know on the butt is not only not acceptable but not dj either.

YES! practice kino. but part of that practice is starting small and PROPERLY GAUGING REACTION before escalating.

practice. depending on the guy, work can represent the most access he has to women.

delta

p.s. i think practicing kino is as harmless as it gets. but relationships and dating can be tricky....
 

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You will become the creepy walmart guy who always touches the cute walmart girls (as if there is such a thing as a cute walmart girl)

Why don't you practice kino on girls who you meet, take out and date.
 
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