"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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should I practice kino on chicks I work with?

avrilishot

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Will recently I got a job at walmart and anyways theres some really hot chicks there, and i never met them yet but im thinking about doing it real soon. anyways I am kinda new to kino, and so I was wondering would you do kino on chicks you work with? also I dont work close at all to these chicks. I work in the back and some of them work in the front area of the store. and when I have to put things to the front I see them. so help me out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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flexion_

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Probably not a good idea to practice touching women you work with - asking for legal stuff.
 

Marlimus

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We call it kino, HR will call it sexual harrassment.
Agreed. I would not go there.
 

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With so many women to pickup, stay away fom the ones at your place of employment.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SELF-MASTERY

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When I was younger I smacked a female friend on the bottom with a newspaper and got in trouble because some old hag thought it was wrong.......
 

Delta

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harassment should not be an issue if you do it right.... most initial kino is above the waist... nowhere near the butt. and yes, smacking a chick you hardly know on the butt is not only not acceptable but not dj either.

YES! practice kino. but part of that practice is starting small and PROPERLY GAUGING REACTION before escalating.

practice. depending on the guy, work can represent the most access he has to women.

delta

p.s. i think practicing kino is as harmless as it gets. but relationships and dating can be tricky....
 

rocky_mtn

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You will become the creepy walmart guy who always touches the cute walmart girls (as if there is such a thing as a cute walmart girl)

Why don't you practice kino on girls who you meet, take out and date.
 
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