"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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should I practice kino on chicks I work with?

avrilishot

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Will recently I got a job at walmart and anyways theres some really hot chicks there, and i never met them yet but im thinking about doing it real soon. anyways I am kinda new to kino, and so I was wondering would you do kino on chicks you work with? also I dont work close at all to these chicks. I work in the back and some of them work in the front area of the store. and when I have to put things to the front I see them. so help me out.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Probably not a good idea to practice touching women you work with - asking for legal stuff.
 

Marlimus

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We call it kino, HR will call it sexual harrassment.
Agreed. I would not go there.
 

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With so many women to pickup, stay away fom the ones at your place of employment.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SELF-MASTERY

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When I was younger I smacked a female friend on the bottom with a newspaper and got in trouble because some old hag thought it was wrong.......
 

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harassment should not be an issue if you do it right.... most initial kino is above the waist... nowhere near the butt. and yes, smacking a chick you hardly know on the butt is not only not acceptable but not dj either.

YES! practice kino. but part of that practice is starting small and PROPERLY GAUGING REACTION before escalating.

practice. depending on the guy, work can represent the most access he has to women.

delta

p.s. i think practicing kino is as harmless as it gets. but relationships and dating can be tricky....
 

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You will become the creepy walmart guy who always touches the cute walmart girls (as if there is such a thing as a cute walmart girl)

Why don't you practice kino on girls who you meet, take out and date.
 
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