"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I plate this possible sociopath or bpd chicken?

Infern0

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Girl I know who's wanted me for the last two and a half years. I've never been keen on her but I have a lack of options right now and am rebuilding after my ltr with the DIAGNOSED bpd from hell.

Anyway this chick is just as ****ed up, daddy issues, currently engaged but a chronic cheater, stalked me for 6 months, throws herself at me etc etc.

I'm thinking she'll be fine for shaking the rust off and having a bit of slightly depraved fun with, she doesn't know where I live or work so I'm fine and she doesn't want to blow her meal ticket with the rich AFC fiancee. So she'll be discreet

I also don't give a fvck about her and never will which drives her crazy, so i could get it whenever i click my fingers with her and I'll just block her and ghost when I can line up a better chick.

Any objections?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dgwizdal

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No - You'll be miserable. Eventually she'll try to kill you or you'll be going to jail defending yourself from her batsh!t craziness when it hits the fan.
 

SgtSplacker

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You know she's not just gonna let you bone her without her having some fun with your sanity. You don't stick your diick in crazy man. Even if it's easy.
 

Baggio86

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Infern0 said:
Girl I know who's wanted me for the last two and a half years. I've never been keen on her but I have a lack of options right now and am rebuilding after my ltr with the DIAGNOSED bpd from hell.

Anyway this chick is just as ****ed up, daddy issues, currently engaged but a chronic cheater, stalked me for 6 months, throws herself at me etc etc.

I'm thinking she'll be fine for shaking the rust off and having a bit of slightly depraved fun with, she doesn't know where I live or work so I'm fine and she doesn't want to blow her meal ticket with the rich AFC fiancee. So she'll be discreet

I also don't give a fvck about her and never will which drives her crazy, so i could get it whenever i click my fingers with her and I'll just block her and ghost when I can line up a better chick.

Any objections?
Dude, you'll be sitting in a police cell soon... stay away!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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El Payaso

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She's fvcked up and you know it. Stop playing with fire and being when you get burned.
 

Genius500

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I wouldn't with an unstable woman. Who knows what she is capable of. Your life dude.
 
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