"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I plate this possible sociopath or bpd chicken?

Infern0

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Girl I know who's wanted me for the last two and a half years. I've never been keen on her but I have a lack of options right now and am rebuilding after my ltr with the DIAGNOSED bpd from hell.

Anyway this chick is just as ****ed up, daddy issues, currently engaged but a chronic cheater, stalked me for 6 months, throws herself at me etc etc.

I'm thinking she'll be fine for shaking the rust off and having a bit of slightly depraved fun with, she doesn't know where I live or work so I'm fine and she doesn't want to blow her meal ticket with the rich AFC fiancee. So she'll be discreet

I also don't give a fvck about her and never will which drives her crazy, so i could get it whenever i click my fingers with her and I'll just block her and ghost when I can line up a better chick.

Any objections?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dgwizdal

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No - You'll be miserable. Eventually she'll try to kill you or you'll be going to jail defending yourself from her batsh!t craziness when it hits the fan.
 

SgtSplacker

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You know she's not just gonna let you bone her without her having some fun with your sanity. You don't stick your diick in crazy man. Even if it's easy.
 

Baggio86

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Infern0 said:
Girl I know who's wanted me for the last two and a half years. I've never been keen on her but I have a lack of options right now and am rebuilding after my ltr with the DIAGNOSED bpd from hell.

Anyway this chick is just as ****ed up, daddy issues, currently engaged but a chronic cheater, stalked me for 6 months, throws herself at me etc etc.

I'm thinking she'll be fine for shaking the rust off and having a bit of slightly depraved fun with, she doesn't know where I live or work so I'm fine and she doesn't want to blow her meal ticket with the rich AFC fiancee. So she'll be discreet

I also don't give a fvck about her and never will which drives her crazy, so i could get it whenever i click my fingers with her and I'll just block her and ghost when I can line up a better chick.

Any objections?
Dude, you'll be sitting in a police cell soon... stay away!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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She's fvcked up and you know it. Stop playing with fire and being when you get burned.
 

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I wouldn't with an unstable woman. Who knows what she is capable of. Your life dude.
 
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