"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should i of gone for the Kiss?

Essa Rios

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So i met this girl on Craigslist and after 2months of emails we finally decided
to meet in person. We did exchange pic's before but that was it. After the
1st month of emailng she wanted to meet but i said i had plans already (i wanted to built up her interest as i was not bust at all.) I guess it worked as
she was always asking to meet up. Finally i said yes and we met
Saturday night for dinner.

Very cute girl and we had great conversation plus she was laughing at all my jokes. I was on fire that night as everything i said made her laugh. After dinner we went to walk around and listen to a band playing by the park.
I was teasing her that we should dance but she said that she didnt know how. So i grab her hand and start teaching her even thou i can't dance, i was faking that i did :)

While hearing the band play i put my arm around her shoulders and i notice
she wraps her arm around my back (great sign i thinK)
Then we go get ice cream, we share a cup and i feed her with my spoon
and she accepts. After talking some more i walk her to her car.

Said i had a great time and would love to take her out again. She smiles and
said sure with a large smile. Was thinking of going for a kiss but i guess i
chicken out so i gave her a 5second hug, then we talked some more and gave her another 5second hug. Was i wrong not to go for the kiss???
I wanted to play it cool and not be too pushy. Thoughts!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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I live to get laid, so, I always try to escalate. I don't care what the situation is.

Honestly, the girl wanted you to kiss her.

She may think you're gay if you don't kiss her the next time you see her. But, don't beat yourself up over it.
 

Tiguere

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Make the craigslist hoe say no. She got free dinner ..free ice cream...free comic relief

What did you get?
 

blackwolf

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i dont care anymore when im with a girl. i just go for the kiss all the time cause i learnt when i dont i always regret it. and almost always i get kissed back anyway. even if they dont like you they just push you away, big deal.

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While hearing the band play i put my arm around her shoulders and i notice
she wraps her arm around my back (great sign i thinK) <--- should of kissed

Then we go get ice cream, we share a cup and i feed her with my spoon and she accepts. <-- again

After talking some more i walk her to her car. <--- again
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDanny

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Not even reading your post. The answer is yes. The answer is always yes,
 
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