"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should i of gone for the Kiss?

Essa Rios

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So i met this girl on Craigslist and after 2months of emails we finally decided
to meet in person. We did exchange pic's before but that was it. After the
1st month of emailng she wanted to meet but i said i had plans already (i wanted to built up her interest as i was not bust at all.) I guess it worked as
she was always asking to meet up. Finally i said yes and we met
Saturday night for dinner.

Very cute girl and we had great conversation plus she was laughing at all my jokes. I was on fire that night as everything i said made her laugh. After dinner we went to walk around and listen to a band playing by the park.
I was teasing her that we should dance but she said that she didnt know how. So i grab her hand and start teaching her even thou i can't dance, i was faking that i did :)

While hearing the band play i put my arm around her shoulders and i notice
she wraps her arm around my back (great sign i thinK)
Then we go get ice cream, we share a cup and i feed her with my spoon
and she accepts. After talking some more i walk her to her car.

Said i had a great time and would love to take her out again. She smiles and
said sure with a large smile. Was thinking of going for a kiss but i guess i
chicken out so i gave her a 5second hug, then we talked some more and gave her another 5second hug. Was i wrong not to go for the kiss???
I wanted to play it cool and not be too pushy. Thoughts!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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I live to get laid, so, I always try to escalate. I don't care what the situation is.

Honestly, the girl wanted you to kiss her.

She may think you're gay if you don't kiss her the next time you see her. But, don't beat yourself up over it.
 

Tiguere

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Make the craigslist hoe say no. She got free dinner ..free ice cream...free comic relief

What did you get?
 

blackwolf

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i dont care anymore when im with a girl. i just go for the kiss all the time cause i learnt when i dont i always regret it. and almost always i get kissed back anyway. even if they dont like you they just push you away, big deal.

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While hearing the band play i put my arm around her shoulders and i notice
she wraps her arm around my back (great sign i thinK) <--- should of kissed

Then we go get ice cream, we share a cup and i feed her with my spoon and she accepts. <-- again

After talking some more i walk her to her car. <--- again
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDanny

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Not even reading your post. The answer is yes. The answer is always yes,
 
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