Should I no contact?

[OamImrsNemo]

So last night I was supposed to hang out with this chick Ive been seein for about 2 months.... So me her and some other people were all supposed to hang out... She told me she would meet up with us but that she had to drop by a friends house real quick...She then didnt contact me for 2 and a half hours only sending me a text...I ignored her she then called me at 1:30 am which I ignored as well....Well now today another plan we had set was to go out to a comedy club thing and she texted me asking how was last night, how was my day, and if were still on for tonight?



So guys what should I do? confront her? ignore her for a couple days? Still go but confront her on it?

 

[slaog]

First thing to remember is to remain cool and not get angry. If you can do that it'll tell her that she can't control your happiness.


It wasn't exactly a date so you can't really confront her. You were already with other people. That doesn't excuse her but its what she might have been thinking.


What I would do is go and act like nothing happened. I think by ignoring her you have given her her punishment and she might be more considerate the next time.

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Good idea's thank you!

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Can you go more into detail on what you mean? because arnt we supposed to be playing games like this so we dont come out as needy? No contacting to make them miss you?

 

[Rez]

The very fact of the matter is that all you know regarding the situation deals primarily with the fact that this is definitely going to turn into a run-on sentence.

All joking aside, she said she had to meet up with a someone beforehand and it unfortunately didn't work out according to your plans. Maybe something personal took over and she couldn't control her time management. Yes, she should have let you known this earlier during the night instead of waiting so long but the truth is.....she didn't.

If this is the first time something like this has happened then let it slide. Only bring it to her attention when it starts to become a pattern.

Let us know your next move.