"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out. But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that. I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her. Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim. She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You know better! tsk tsk tsk...

So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out.

-pick up your ego and move on


But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that.

-mistake


I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her.

-then next her


Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim.

-*sigh*


She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?

-you know what to do
 

Swede54

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Re: You know better! tsk tsk tsk...

Originally posted by darth yoda
So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out.

-pick up your ego and move on


But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that.

-mistake


I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her.

-then next her


Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim.

-*sigh*


She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?

-you know what to do

word man i nexted her.
 

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sad but true swede :eek: ... you blew it, and its too late, work on your skills bro because it seems like you need it, as for the broad MOVE on because your looking pretty damn sympish :rolleyes: .. like I said, work on the skill then act, fine broads come a dime in a dozen ;)
 

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blocked all contact from her. And told her that im not into her anymore and that we shouldnt talk.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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