So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out. But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that. I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her. Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim. She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Should i next?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
darth yoda
Don Juan
You know better! tsk tsk tsk...
So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out.
-pick up your ego and move on
But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that.
-mistake
I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her.
-then next her
Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim.
-*sigh*
She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?
-you know what to do
So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out.
-pick up your ego and move on
But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that.
-mistake
I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her.
-then next her
Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim.
-*sigh*
She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?
-you know what to do
sad but true swede 
... you blew it, and its too late, work on your skills bro because it seems like you need it, as for the broad MOVE on because your looking pretty damn sympish .. like I said, work on the skill then act, fine broads come a dime in a dozen
... you blew it, and its too late, work on your skills bro because it seems like you need it, as for the broad MOVE on because your looking pretty damn sympish .. like I said, work on the skill then act, fine broads come a dime in a dozen "She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.