So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out. But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that. I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her. Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim. She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Should i next?
- Thread starter Swede54
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
darth yoda
Don Juan
You know better! tsk tsk tsk...
So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out.
-pick up your ego and move on
But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that.
-mistake
I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her.
-then next her
Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim.
-*sigh*
She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?
-you know what to do
So i have had htis friend for awhile a girl ive ALWAYS liked. I been rejected twice asking her out.
-pick up your ego and move on
But i continued being her friend because i liked her like that.
-mistake
I mean when you honestly ask me, its like i rather be with her, or have nothing to do with her.
-then next her
Ive been trying to next her, been doing not so bad, but still talking on aim.
-*sigh*
She is a tease, she just acts interested in me than shoots me down, what do i do?
-you know what to do
sad but true swede 
... you blew it, and its too late, work on your skills bro because it seems like you need it, as for the broad MOVE on because your looking pretty damn sympish .. like I said, work on the skill then act, fine broads come a dime in a dozen
... you blew it, and its too late, work on your skills bro because it seems like you need it, as for the broad MOVE on because your looking pretty damn sympish .. like I said, work on the skill then act, fine broads come a dime in a dozen "I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.