should i next this girl

[bigtymer]

I knew this girl for a while and Dj'ed her and then asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she was all no i cant i work all the time. so i nexted her and now shes callin me a couple times a week. so should i give her another chance or just forget about it

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Originally posted by bigtymer
I knew this girl for a while and Dj'ed her and then asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she was all no i cant i work all the time. so i nexted her and now shes callin me a couple times a week. so should i give her another chance or just forget about it

I would say if you think she's worth it, make her prove it to you by having her take you on a date. Suggest it with a bit of a ****y tone and see what she says. Perhaps she was really busy with work and does like ya, who knows?

Worst case scenario is she says she won't take you on a date. NEXT. You'll probably get a free meal and evening of fun out of it

 

[drixsa]

no do not next her

you may of played this smarter than you even knew

its funny how sometimes when you are outgoing they reject but when you stop all attension towards them, they come to you

this girl has an interest in you so take advantage

be a challenge, as well

 

[bigtymer]

so should i call her up tomorrow if i had a missed call from her on my cell today and ask her to do somethin this weekend or should i ease back into it and just talk to her and ask for a date next time? thanks for all the help

 

[Cheatz]

Okay first off you shouldn't obey our instructions or anything, sure we are here to help but we do not dictate your life. Just listen to yourself "should I call her up tomorrow..." "should I next her" it's perfectly understandable that you ask these questions but you must learn that this forum can't gurantee you the right decision you choose. What you must teach yourself is learn to take decisions yourself and not always rely on others with such minor problems.

I know I am coming a bit hard on you but that's what you have to learn. Please, before you post any further questions to this board regarding your relationships have a think first and if you really don't know what to do then ask here. It just saves you time and saves space on the boards.

Oh and I would suggest that to ring back and find out what does she want and then you can progress in asking her out.

 

[drixsa]

id say that you shouldnt call her

let her call you or make causal plans when you see her in school

go from there

 

[THA REALNESS]

I don't know man ,i'd probably next her if i was you .

I've noticed that when i wanted to keep a girl around for whatever reason .I never question wheter i should or shouldn't is always a definitive" yes".

Anytime i start anylizing it start making up excuses for her it almost always ends up in disaster .


It's really up to you bigtymer.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

I'd put her in the PENDING category, she isn't ready for expiration but isn't fresh and receptive.