"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I next this girl? Text convo inside

Kal0051

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K, so going out this fri night with a bunch of people to hit the club scene. In my city most of the clubs are located close together (lets call it the club district for now). I was thinking that it be cool to get 1 or 2 girls to come out with me. So I text this girl I went out a couple times with (maybe make something happen with her), and she never got back to me (I had the suspicion that she wasn't interested, so whatever, she's gone). Started thinking about who I could invite. Thought of this girl I met through my work, got her number a couple weeks ago so I could chill with her. I also knew that she had fri nights off. So I send her this text (yes I texted her, it was 11pm):

Me: So I'm heading to the clubs on fri with some people. Come hang out.
Girl: I hate it in that part of town lol i dont go there
Me: Lol, why not? FYI it isn't that great around where you live (she only goes out near her place)
Girl: lol its expensive and far and to busy
Me: Fine, then your hagning out with me another night this week :p
Girl: Im working and me and my roommate are havin a movie night tuesday we can see sometime maybe one day
Me: k, have fun tues

I doubt she's even remotely interested. Is it even worth continuing to talk to her for practice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ice882

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no. because nothing will work, so even good stuff will slide off like teflon.
 

katatonia

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Kal0051 said:
Is it even worth continuing to talk to her for practice?
Probably not.

You'd need some tight as hell game to pull this one back. Better off going no contact and seeing if she gets in touch with you.
 

Kal0051

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katatonia said:
You'd need some tight as hell game to pull this one back. Better off going no contact and seeing if she gets in touch with you.
she won't. I do see her once in a while, but I doubt she'll bring up us hanging out. K, back to square one, zero girls. Might as well delete her number as well.
 

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Kal0051 said:
So I text this girl I went out a couple times with (maybe make something happen with her), and she never got back to me (I had the suspicion that she wasn't interested, so whatever, she's gone).
Why do you even bothered with her ? In my experience the interested girls will walk the extra mile - and the rest is irrelevant except for experimenting with lost self-respect and lost time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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