“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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should I next? How? tell me what to do

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t510

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so talking with this girl from an online site who's profile I'm into.


Our conversation went back and forth about 5 times each nothing too important. exchanged pictures. Probably about 3-4 days in between responses. She seemed into it.
Then I asked if I can call / skype sometime - pretty direct in my request though. Didn't get a response for 3 days. Then I said.... what are you doing on here anyway. I mean your really cute. If I was at ___ university I'd definately date you lol
She writes back right away
Hey! Im on here to meet people I guess. I'm pretty chill about the whole thong though. I just don't have the time to be super fast about anything these days haha. I'm in Mexico rift now with my fam. Big holiday plans?

How would you respond? I'm thinking just next as she seems really non committed saying shes chill about the whole thing.
What do you think? Wwhat would you do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Find out when she's getting back from Mexico. When she does get back get her # and set up a date a few days later. If she's interested she will accept. If she isn't she won't. You can move on or try again at a later date.
 
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Why are you even thinking about "non committed" after 5 email exchanges?
If she seems interesting, keep talking to her.. What's the harm? especially in just online interactions. Don't constantly hoard her with messages though. Pull her in and push her away!

The one thing that's a little unclear is when she says "I don't have time to be super fast about anything these days".. Did you leave something out of the convo? Because I'm interepreting this as either...

a.) She thinks that you're seeking an exclusive partner (hence why I asked if you left anything out of the convo)..
b.) She's giving you qualification.. She is letting you know why she did not reply so quickly. So she might dig you if you keep going.

In the case of B, definitely keep going. In the case of A.. Just stop for a while and let her initiate communication.

Because even if you say to her "Oh no it's not like that" (In the case of option A).. Then it is like that. You're demonstrating to her you want her attention by giving her qualification on what you want.

For example...

(AFC looks at hot girls profile, pictures future dates and eventually marrying her)
Girl: Hey I don't have time to be super fast with anything right now. (THINKING: This guy seems really nice, I don't want to lead him on and hurt his feelings)
AFC: Well I mean it's not like that. I just wanna hangout you know? (THINKING: Damn that sucks! Maybe if I take her out I can change her mind!)
Girl: Oh okay, well you wanna go shopping? (THINKING: I'll be friends with him since he's so nice.. I could get along with him greatly, and that way I don't have to hurt his feelings if we ever broke up! Plus he's not going to make a move in a mall!)

See what I mean?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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