"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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should I next? How? tell me what to do

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so talking with this girl from an online site who's profile I'm into.


Our conversation went back and forth about 5 times each nothing too important. exchanged pictures. Probably about 3-4 days in between responses. She seemed into it.
Then I asked if I can call / skype sometime - pretty direct in my request though. Didn't get a response for 3 days. Then I said.... what are you doing on here anyway. I mean your really cute. If I was at ___ university I'd definately date you lol
She writes back right away
Hey! Im on here to meet people I guess. I'm pretty chill about the whole thong though. I just don't have the time to be super fast about anything these days haha. I'm in Mexico rift now with my fam. Big holiday plans?

How would you respond? I'm thinking just next as she seems really non committed saying shes chill about the whole thing.
What do you think? Wwhat would you do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Find out when she's getting back from Mexico. When she does get back get her # and set up a date a few days later. If she's interested she will accept. If she isn't she won't. You can move on or try again at a later date.
 
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Why are you even thinking about "non committed" after 5 email exchanges?
If she seems interesting, keep talking to her.. What's the harm? especially in just online interactions. Don't constantly hoard her with messages though. Pull her in and push her away!

The one thing that's a little unclear is when she says "I don't have time to be super fast about anything these days".. Did you leave something out of the convo? Because I'm interepreting this as either...

a.) She thinks that you're seeking an exclusive partner (hence why I asked if you left anything out of the convo)..
b.) She's giving you qualification.. She is letting you know why she did not reply so quickly. So she might dig you if you keep going.

In the case of B, definitely keep going. In the case of A.. Just stop for a while and let her initiate communication.

Because even if you say to her "Oh no it's not like that" (In the case of option A).. Then it is like that. You're demonstrating to her you want her attention by giving her qualification on what you want.

For example...

(AFC looks at hot girls profile, pictures future dates and eventually marrying her)
Girl: Hey I don't have time to be super fast with anything right now. (THINKING: This guy seems really nice, I don't want to lead him on and hurt his feelings)
AFC: Well I mean it's not like that. I just wanna hangout you know? (THINKING: Damn that sucks! Maybe if I take her out I can change her mind!)
Girl: Oh okay, well you wanna go shopping? (THINKING: I'll be friends with him since he's so nice.. I could get along with him greatly, and that way I don't have to hurt his feelings if we ever broke up! Plus he's not going to make a move in a mall!)

See what I mean?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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