"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should i next her ?

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hi guys ..

So about 2 weeks ago I'd approached a girl in a bar. We did some conversations than after I built comfort i did some KINO, and after that she gave me a neckless ( and the e-mail + her phone number ). So after about 3-4 days I called her and and i told her that " I was gonna be in "this" bar with my friends, are you coming and we will meet ". She accepted, and that night I did some Kino escalation but I couldn't kissed her because somehow she told me that is to fast.:down: Anyway after that day we talked in MSN and we was about to go out in a another "date" but when I called her she told me that she was going in a trip with her family.

'till that day I didn't talk to her, cause I thought I had aced very "needy", but last night we started a conversation in MSN and she told me that she is back at home.

I'm not obsessed after her, you know I'm not in love with her, I took this just as a training in my advance from AFC to "PUA" or "not fear from approaches" because I opened her friend set, had fun and i was about to seduce her. But now I'm rally confused. :eek:

Should I next her or do I have any chance to make her my new girlfriend :cool: ??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just keep seeing her casually but make sure you don't put all your eggs in one basket.

The fact that she said the second date was too early to kiss worries me a bit - just work on that and if she is stale after the third date then I would consider ditching her ass. How old are you guys?
 
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Yeah, I would try for another date....too early to next her, but make sure you're involved with others too. Beware the dreaded oneitis.
 
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thanks for advices ..
by the way I'm 16. I'm in high-school.
 
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In that case it's somewhat normal for it to take a few dates for a kiss. Just keep at it and work your magic and you should be doing stuff with her in no time :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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