should i next her ?

[macking]

hi guys ..

So about 2 weeks ago I'd approached a girl in a bar. We did some conversations than after I built comfort i did some KINO, and after that she gave me a neckless ( and the e-mail + her phone number ). So after about 3-4 days I called her and and i told her that " I was gonna be in "this" bar with my friends, are you coming and we will meet ". She accepted, and that night I did some Kino escalation but I couldn't kissed her because somehow she told me that is to fast. Anyway after that day we talked in MSN and we was about to go out in a another "date" but when I called her she told me that she was going in a trip with her family.

'till that day I didn't talk to her, cause I thought I had aced very "needy", but last night we started a conversation in MSN and she told me that she is back at home.

I'm not obsessed after her, you know I'm not in love with her, I took this just as a training in my advance from AFC to "PUA" or "not fear from approaches" because I opened her friend set, had fun and i was about to seduce her. But now I'm rally confused.

Should I next her or do I have any chance to make her my new girlfriend ??

 

[MCristo]

Just keep seeing her casually but make sure you don't put all your eggs in one basket.

The fact that she said the second date was too early to kiss worries me a bit - just work on that and if she is stale after the third date then I would consider ditching her ass. How old are you guys?

 

[ARrocket]

Yeah, I would try for another date....too early to next her, but make sure you're involved with others too. Beware the dreaded oneitis.

 

[macking]

thanks for advices ..
by the way I'm 16. I'm in high-school.

 

[MCristo]

In that case it's somewhat normal for it to take a few dates for a kiss. Just keep at it and work your magic and you should be doing stuff with her in no time