"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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should i next her ?

macking

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hi guys ..

So about 2 weeks ago I'd approached a girl in a bar. We did some conversations than after I built comfort i did some KINO, and after that she gave me a neckless ( and the e-mail + her phone number ). So after about 3-4 days I called her and and i told her that " I was gonna be in "this" bar with my friends, are you coming and we will meet ". She accepted, and that night I did some Kino escalation but I couldn't kissed her because somehow she told me that is to fast.:down: Anyway after that day we talked in MSN and we was about to go out in a another "date" but when I called her she told me that she was going in a trip with her family.

'till that day I didn't talk to her, cause I thought I had aced very "needy", but last night we started a conversation in MSN and she told me that she is back at home.

I'm not obsessed after her, you know I'm not in love with her, I took this just as a training in my advance from AFC to "PUA" or "not fear from approaches" because I opened her friend set, had fun and i was about to seduce her. But now I'm rally confused. :eek:

Should I next her or do I have any chance to make her my new girlfriend :cool: ??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MCristo

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Just keep seeing her casually but make sure you don't put all your eggs in one basket.

The fact that she said the second date was too early to kiss worries me a bit - just work on that and if she is stale after the third date then I would consider ditching her ass. How old are you guys?
 

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Yeah, I would try for another date....too early to next her, but make sure you're involved with others too. Beware the dreaded oneitis.
 

macking

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thanks for advices ..
by the way I'm 16. I'm in high-school.
 

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In that case it's somewhat normal for it to take a few dates for a kiss. Just keep at it and work your magic and you should be doing stuff with her in no time :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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