"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should i meet up with her or just withold attention?

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this HB i picked up in a book store a month ago i went on a date with, it went pretty well bar the fact she has a long term bf. i could tell in the date she was trying to test me to see if i was better than her bf (financially etc etc). shes only in the country for 5 months studying and goes back home every month to see her family and bf. she lives alone here.

we met up a 2nd time this past weekend to hang out in the park, i tried major kino, massaging her touching her etc. she lets me touch her a bit then moves away. i definitely feel friendzoned cos she keeps calling me a friend but lets me touch her regardless. i really should have tried to escalate more yesterday, groping her etc. she wont let me kiss her for obvious reasons.

im looking for other girls in the mean time but if i have spare time while im not sarging i feel like i should go hang out with her and see if i can get her to cheat. is this pointless? it's weird i feel friendzoned BUT if she didn't have a bf i get a sense we would be doing more than just touching..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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