"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should i meet up with her or just withold attention?

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this HB i picked up in a book store a month ago i went on a date with, it went pretty well bar the fact she has a long term bf. i could tell in the date she was trying to test me to see if i was better than her bf (financially etc etc). shes only in the country for 5 months studying and goes back home every month to see her family and bf. she lives alone here.

we met up a 2nd time this past weekend to hang out in the park, i tried major kino, massaging her touching her etc. she lets me touch her a bit then moves away. i definitely feel friendzoned cos she keeps calling me a friend but lets me touch her regardless. i really should have tried to escalate more yesterday, groping her etc. she wont let me kiss her for obvious reasons.

im looking for other girls in the mean time but if i have spare time while im not sarging i feel like i should go hang out with her and see if i can get her to cheat. is this pointless? it's weird i feel friendzoned BUT if she didn't have a bf i get a sense we would be doing more than just touching..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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