"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

should i make a move?

Joined
Dec 23, 2007
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
ive been talking to this girl for a while now and wanted to ask her out. shes been giving me good signs and i feel as though she is interested. The only problem is that she likes one of my good friends and he likes her. (i heard this from one of her friends) He is just too timid to do anything though. what do u guys recommend?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

john paul

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
3
Location
Paradise City
If hes timid then he wont ever make a move and she will get bored or he will screw up with her.

Wait till she gets bored and doesnt like him anymore. At that point you can increase your game; getting more aggressive by hanging out with her alone or isolating her if your hanging out with friends and make your move then.

but right now keep the gaming low key and give your friend a shot
 

Stacks Of Terror

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2007
Messages
77
Reaction score
0
"If you even barely think she's interested she probably is."
 

DJ_Matthew

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2007
Messages
91
Reaction score
0
carreyreincarnate1 said:
ive been talking to this girl for a while now and wanted to ask her out. shes been giving me good signs and i feel as though she is interested. The only problem is that she likes one of my good friends and he likes her. (i heard this from one of her friends) He is just too timid to do anything though. what do u guys recommend?
It always makes me laugh when I see topics like these.

Of course you should ask her out... Usually the longer you wait, the lower your chances are.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top