"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should i make a move?

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ive been talking to this girl for a while now and wanted to ask her out. shes been giving me good signs and i feel as though she is interested. The only problem is that she likes one of my good friends and he likes her. (i heard this from one of her friends) He is just too timid to do anything though. what do u guys recommend?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If hes timid then he wont ever make a move and she will get bored or he will screw up with her.

Wait till she gets bored and doesnt like him anymore. At that point you can increase your game; getting more aggressive by hanging out with her alone or isolating her if your hanging out with friends and make your move then.

but right now keep the gaming low key and give your friend a shot
 

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"If you even barely think she's interested she probably is."
 

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carreyreincarnate1 said:
ive been talking to this girl for a while now and wanted to ask her out. shes been giving me good signs and i feel as though she is interested. The only problem is that she likes one of my good friends and he likes her. (i heard this from one of her friends) He is just too timid to do anything though. what do u guys recommend?
It always makes me laugh when I see topics like these.

Of course you should ask her out... Usually the longer you wait, the lower your chances are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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