"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Two nights in a row I've been calling this girl I got a number from last weekend and both times I got the machine. I hung up both times and figured I'd just try again. I think it's a bit much to call 3 times and ust hang up. Should I try calling a 3rd time and just leave a message? Should I make a joke on the message and dare her to call me back? Or should I just say "Hey Lisa, met you at the bar last weekend, what are you up to tomorrow night...give me a shout back at 543-XXXX". Let me know what you think I should do. Thanks.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Messages are bad. After you have been in a relationship a while they are OK. But, in the begining you need to talk to her yourself. Give her another call or two. If you still can't get her, toss the number.

I'm out
 
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No messages if you haven't even spoken to her yet. Try calling at some different times, she may just never be home at certain times (i.e. work, etc.).
 
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ok, should I try calling her again tonight? Tried her at 8:30 with no luck. How late can I call her? It's almost 9:30 now.

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most girls seem to give their #'s to hundreds of guys, then start screening their calls.

Leave her a message, if she doesnt respond, toss the #
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leave a message. Speak like Satan and talk about something soft and fluffy like kittens. At the end burp. 5 bucks sais she'll call you back. :D Sorry I couldn't resist. Back to the real advice men.
 
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Originally posted by Rondavu
Leave a message. Speak like Satan and talk about something soft and fluffy like kittens. At the end burp.
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hahahhahaah! good 1, good 1!

WTF. all you cats and your message no message bullsh!t. whether or not a cat left a message on my voicemail was never, and i'll repeat never fcuking ever the deciding factor on whether or not he had a chance.

:rolleyes:


oh, yeah, and go read the bible. :p
 
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just leave a message. If she CARES she will call you back. Do not plan on calling her (ever) until she calls you back. Don't play the "Call the person's cell" and not leave a message kinda thing. 1. girls like getting some power.. give it to her, nothing wrong with that. But if she's the type that never returns calls or never calls - don't get upset by it, just ignore her till she's the one calling.
 
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