“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Should i leave a job i absolutly love for a job ill hate for double the pay?

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I know it sounds like a no brainer but for the first time in a long time i love going to work. I dont make alot just enough to get by and then some but I love my co workers and the job itself. I get NY on what i make and was offered a raise to not leave. I have so much freetime at my current job I could literally Have a 2nd job. I have well over a month of leave with pay. Just the benefits and money isnt nearly as good as what the other oppurtunity has to offer
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would.

How do you know you;ll hate the new job? Negative attitude is a self fulfilling prophecy.

Happy on a cycle or sad in a Rolls Royce?

Money isnt your goal its the conduit to achieve passions.
 

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Ive had a job in the same company diff department though. I was miserable.... I know the crew of which i will be working on same old ****......
 

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Ive had a job in the same company diff department though. I was miserable.... I know the crew of which i will be working on same old ****......
This job has a big turnover rate. Its an overhead lineman position.
 

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Honestly I probably wouldn’t if I was in your spot. You’ll probably regret it since you’re already having doubts about it. More money is always nice, but as long as you’re getting by now AND you’re happy w your current job... I say stay.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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consider your life goals. does anyone earn more in your current place, how do you get that job if you would even want it.

if you chase the money to the new one and hate it then you just keep looking for the next even higher one with a goal to save enough to not need to work by either self-funded business or investments. you don't want to chase the money if you hate the job unless you have a clear plan to get past that situation. the money will increase your status; hating what you do will burn you out unless you have a plan so that doing it is just a step to something you do want to do.
 

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Depends on where ur talent is, everyone has different talent.

It is where ur talent lies that you'll truly be happy.

A donkey, a monkey, a pig and a dog is tasked to climb a tree.

Obviously the monkey will enjoy it, since it's his inherent talent and the rest will not.
 

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consider your life goals. does anyone earn more in your current place, how do you get that job if you would even want it.

if you chase the money to the new one and hate it then you just keep looking for the next even higher one with a goal to save enough to not need to work by either self-funded business or investments. you don't want to chase the money if you hate the job unless you have a clear plan to get past that situation. the money will increase your status; hating what you do will burn you out unless you have a plan so that doing it is just a step to something you do want to do.
Great advice
 

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Honestly I probably wouldn’t if I was in your spot. You’ll probably regret it since you’re already having doubts about it. More money is always nice, but as long as you’re getting by now AND you’re happy w your current job... I say stay.
I chose to stay for now plus they offered me even more money
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So what would be the next step? Is it assured advancement?
 

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It depends on exactly what you would be doing. You could resign from the job you're at with the reason being "I just need to make more money", and then say that once you have saved up enough to meet your goal, you would love to come back.
 

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Ive had a job in the same company diff department though. I was miserable.... I know the crew of which i will be working on same old ****......
Have a strong work out before work. It'll make you more positive and resilient in the negative environment. You will power thru your day.
 

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In this day and age, jobs are much more about the potential people you will have to work for and with than the job itself.
  • If the new job has good people, fair managers, and people who know their shYt and pull their weight then it would be worth making the change.
  • If the new job has a bunch of toxic lazy azz people and managers who don't know their azz from a hole in the ground, then stay where you are.
  • If you don't know anything about the people at the new job, stay where you are.
I am so DAMN sick of toxic people in the workplace. Even more, I'm so sick of clueless managers who keep the incompetent and lazy people around instead of firing their azzes. Luckly I work with fewer of these people now than in the past, but still, they suck the life out of those of us who really want to work hard and do our fair share. If you work somewhere now that doesn't have too many of these kinds of people (everywhere has some) then I would really consider staying there because you could be going to a new place that is infested with them like roaches . No money is worth having your soul sucked out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Every man's goal should be to get off the hamster wheel. Jobs are jails.

I occasionally meet people that "love their job," but I'm pretty sure they're saying what they think will impress me.

If you love your job, you're probably on anti-depressants. Or you're a psychopath.
 

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Any workplace where there's people around is a good opportunity. Making money in a honest way is a gift. Your employer might want a big boat so you work hard to produce profit for him that is honest. You might want a big boat so you work hard to produce profit for yourself honestly.

That's what work is all about. Providing for yourself and others.

Personally I would just pick one job and pray to God that it supports what you want to do. Praying to God in secret is what is going to be rewarded and really all the other stuff is secondary and doesn't really matter anyways.
 

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The question I'd ask is "Will this job require a 'Vaccine' in order to keep working at it in the future?" Vaccine is where I draw the line.
 
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