"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I know who I'm talking to?

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Okay, so there's this girl that I use to go to high school with that I haven't spoken to in like a year. Now the other day she signs on AIM suddenly and I say "hi" and make up some excuse that it was nice saying hi but that I can't talk online for much because it's not my computer. It worked, she gave me her number and told me to give her a call. So I waited a month now. So I'm thinking about giving her a call, I'm pretty sure she gave me a house number, so is it a good idea to identify her right away when she (if she) picks up or should I act like I don't know who I'm talking to and ask for her anyway? I was in this situation two years ago and I identified her right away and the other girl ALWAYS kept asking who I was every time I called so it put me in the dog house in a way. So I'm just wondering about that and if it was a good idea to wait the length in time I waited.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you waited a MONTH and your THINKING of giver her a call?! You should have simply waited like 4-5 days....30 days after getting a number is a bit too long.
 
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yeah

Yeah, I guess it was a bit too long. But I thought the longer the better? Haha I'm new here so I guess I over loaded on the "tips" section. I guess I did **** up there, if waiting longer isn't the answer. So any advice on the call now?
 
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