Should I keep texting this girl?

[SamMalone]

I met her about six months ago, but I had a girlfriend and she had a boyfriend at the time. There was an obvious attraction there though. Now we're both single. I've seen her a few times in the last month. However, if I don't text her, we don't speak at all. I text her once every two or three days. I've waited a little longer to see if she would text me but she didnt. When I do text her we have long texts back and forth though and she's always the last one to message.

So why doesn't she text me to initiate ever? Lack of interest or wanting me to chase her? How can I tell?

 

[Thundernuts]

probably because she knows she doesn't have to txt you first, youll do it for her. Wait awhile longer and if she doesn't initiate any contact then youll have your answer. Or you could just ask her out but that depends on if you've built yourself enough.

 

[Iceberg]

Why are you having long texts back and forth? If you already know her and know that there's an attraction, then what's there to text about?

"Hey it's Sam. How was your weekend? Let's get drinks this Wednesday"

I'm not singling you out. Too many guys on here talk about these long text chats with girls. I just don't see the point. If your goal is to get the girl 1-on-1, then make that happen. We're not going to charm a girl via text...either the girl liked us or she didn't. Text isn't going to win anyone any extra love. "I wasn't going to f**k you until I saw that hot text you sent"

Okay...now to answer your question...You should ask the girl to hang with you. THEN you'll determine whether or not she's worthy to keep texting.

 

[runner83]

Iceberg said it all. I would rep him again if I could.

Long texts back and forth are a waste of time.

She is probably wondering why you haven't made a move yet.