"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I keep texting this girl?

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SamMalone

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I met her about six months ago, but I had a girlfriend and she had a boyfriend at the time. There was an obvious attraction there though. Now we're both single. I've seen her a few times in the last month. However, if I don't text her, we don't speak at all. I text her once every two or three days. I've waited a little longer to see if she would text me but she didnt. When I do text her we have long texts back and forth though and she's always the last one to message.

So why doesn't she text me to initiate ever? Lack of interest or wanting me to chase her? How can I tell?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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probably because she knows she doesn't have to txt you first, youll do it for her. Wait awhile longer and if she doesn't initiate any contact then youll have your answer. Or you could just ask her out but that depends on if you've built yourself enough.
 
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Why are you having long texts back and forth? If you already know her and know that there's an attraction, then what's there to text about?

"Hey it's Sam. How was your weekend? Let's get drinks this Wednesday"

I'm not singling you out. Too many guys on here talk about these long text chats with girls. I just don't see the point. If your goal is to get the girl 1-on-1, then make that happen. We're not going to charm a girl via text...either the girl liked us or she didn't. Text isn't going to win anyone any extra love. "I wasn't going to f**k you until I saw that hot text you sent"

Okay...now to answer your question...You should ask the girl to hang with you. THEN you'll determine whether or not she's worthy to keep texting.
 
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