"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I just wait for a while?

ASD :)

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Well, there is this 15-year-old HB9 I would really like to seduce. She goes to my school, two grades below me. We started communicating online. Soon we decided to meet - we went for a walk. I left a really bad impression of myself to her, though. I was completely exhausted, wanted to sleep and talked some bullsh*t. There was some minor kino and hugging, though. We kind of agreed she would come to my place some day, she wanted to see my dog and so on. I am quite sure the situation is not hopeless. It was about a month ago, when we met. I see her about every second day at school, but we only like smile and say "Hi!", nothing more.
We had not talked for like 3 weeks (not even online.. only like "good night" on IM a few times). Last week I asked her to come ice-skating with me. Well, she gave me some hope, but she really (I know it for a fact that she did) had some other plans made, so she did not come. After that I thought I would "NEXT!" her, but as I see every other day in shcool how beautiful she is, I decided to give her another chance, lol.
Anyway, the question is - should I wait for a while and then invite her to my place or do it already this weekend (tomorrow)? What do you think? Of course I kind of f*ucked up a lot with the image I left of myself the day we met, but I feel there still definitely is a chance. We talked a lot more before the walk, though. So that worries me. But still, I do not have anything to lose, have I?
So when should I call her? My plan is to have her play with my dog a bit and then go upstairs to my room, watch some movie ("Love Actually" ?:p), do some kino and see what happens. I would drive her home later and we might go out for a dinner on the way or whatever. But still - when should I call her and HOW should I do that? What should I tell her?

Thanks!
ASD :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pecoso

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If the movie thing works out, you might not get to eat that night. ;)

IMO, I don't think asking her to your house (considering your "situation") is that great an idea. I'd start off going somewhere fun that "couples" go to (mall, fast food, pool hall) and work from there.
 

ASD :)

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Thank you for the reply. Could you please explain, though, why do you think inviting her to my house would not be a good idea?
 

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Originally posted by ASD :)
Thank you for the reply. Could you please explain, though, why do you think inviting her to my house would not be a good idea?
First off, her age. Second, you are little more than an aquintance to her. I know you might not wanna answer this, but what state/region ofthe states you from?
 
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