"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should i just move on from this girl?

Prodigy746

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Ill post quick recap of info


-Korean girl 9/10 really cute
-Very shy in college class doesnt talk to anyone
-I start convo with her and shes blushing, fixing her hair, etc etc
-Throughout semester i notice her looking at me , i am like the popular guy in class know pretty much everyone
-Tell her to walk w me after class one time, get her number after class, ask her right away if she has bf and she says no, tell her we gonna hangout, she asks why i say shes cute and i wanna get to know her, she says ok
-I text her few times, mostly school stuff she responds right away
-She texts me first the other day something about school and we text a bit back and forth
-She mentions shes really lazy girl and i say , i say we still hanging out during summer or u gonna be lazy to do that too.
-She replies with if i have time, we will lol i am taking summer classes...
-At this point i didnt even wanna reply but i replied with " bah you are no fun"

and she didnt reply back.


I will see this girl in class few more times, i plan on acting normal but should i let this one go or should i ask her out later on. I feel like if she really liked me she would say yes for sure or cant wait. The thing is i have another girl that already agreed to go out during summer but this girl is literally 9/10 and shes shy innocent girl , something i find really attractive in girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zorg198

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Hello,

Just act normal and don't pay her too much attention, seems like she likes the attention you give her.
 

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Should i just move on from this girl?

If you Have to ask.........
 

yyyy1313

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Purefilth said:
Should i just move on from this girl?

If you Have to ask.........
This is unfortunately true. You know when you are in and when it's over. It's instinctual, definitely follow your instinct on this.

With that said if you don't horribly bomb things like I did. You can always talk with her and see if an interest sparks from her getting to know you. Anywho, that's my 2 cents.
 

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What Danger said. Stop being so vague and take the lead here.

Dudes walking on eggshells rarely get the girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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