"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should i just move on from this girl?

Prodigy746

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Ill post quick recap of info


-Korean girl 9/10 really cute
-Very shy in college class doesnt talk to anyone
-I start convo with her and shes blushing, fixing her hair, etc etc
-Throughout semester i notice her looking at me , i am like the popular guy in class know pretty much everyone
-Tell her to walk w me after class one time, get her number after class, ask her right away if she has bf and she says no, tell her we gonna hangout, she asks why i say shes cute and i wanna get to know her, she says ok
-I text her few times, mostly school stuff she responds right away
-She texts me first the other day something about school and we text a bit back and forth
-She mentions shes really lazy girl and i say , i say we still hanging out during summer or u gonna be lazy to do that too.
-She replies with if i have time, we will lol i am taking summer classes...
-At this point i didnt even wanna reply but i replied with " bah you are no fun"

and she didnt reply back.


I will see this girl in class few more times, i plan on acting normal but should i let this one go or should i ask her out later on. I feel like if she really liked me she would say yes for sure or cant wait. The thing is i have another girl that already agreed to go out during summer but this girl is literally 9/10 and shes shy innocent girl , something i find really attractive in girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zorg198

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Hello,

Just act normal and don't pay her too much attention, seems like she likes the attention you give her.
 

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Should i just move on from this girl?

If you Have to ask.........
 

yyyy1313

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Purefilth said:
Should i just move on from this girl?

If you Have to ask.........
This is unfortunately true. You know when you are in and when it's over. It's instinctual, definitely follow your instinct on this.

With that said if you don't horribly bomb things like I did. You can always talk with her and see if an interest sparks from her getting to know you. Anywho, that's my 2 cents.
 

LongLostFriend

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What Danger said. Stop being so vague and take the lead here.

Dudes walking on eggshells rarely get the girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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