"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should i just move on from this girl?

Prodigy746

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Ill post quick recap of info


-Korean girl 9/10 really cute
-Very shy in college class doesnt talk to anyone
-I start convo with her and shes blushing, fixing her hair, etc etc
-Throughout semester i notice her looking at me , i am like the popular guy in class know pretty much everyone
-Tell her to walk w me after class one time, get her number after class, ask her right away if she has bf and she says no, tell her we gonna hangout, she asks why i say shes cute and i wanna get to know her, she says ok
-I text her few times, mostly school stuff she responds right away
-She texts me first the other day something about school and we text a bit back and forth
-She mentions shes really lazy girl and i say , i say we still hanging out during summer or u gonna be lazy to do that too.
-She replies with if i have time, we will lol i am taking summer classes...
-At this point i didnt even wanna reply but i replied with " bah you are no fun"

and she didnt reply back.


I will see this girl in class few more times, i plan on acting normal but should i let this one go or should i ask her out later on. I feel like if she really liked me she would say yes for sure or cant wait. The thing is i have another girl that already agreed to go out during summer but this girl is literally 9/10 and shes shy innocent girl , something i find really attractive in girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zorg198

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Hello,

Just act normal and don't pay her too much attention, seems like she likes the attention you give her.
 

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Should i just move on from this girl?

If you Have to ask.........
 

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Purefilth said:
Should i just move on from this girl?

If you Have to ask.........
This is unfortunately true. You know when you are in and when it's over. It's instinctual, definitely follow your instinct on this.

With that said if you don't horribly bomb things like I did. You can always talk with her and see if an interest sparks from her getting to know you. Anywho, that's my 2 cents.
 

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What Danger said. Stop being so vague and take the lead here.

Dudes walking on eggshells rarely get the girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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