Should i just come clean?

[nestea16]

Theres this girl that Ive kinda had oneitis for a little bit and im pretty sure she knows I like her but shes kinda shy herself. Now tomorrow Im going to make my move, should I ask her on a date or just tell her how i feel? I know I shouldn't tell her how I feel but shes a nice quiet shy girl so Im not sure. Ideas?

 

[Hamno]

Reccomend not telling her how you feel....convo's like that have such bad potential if there isnt quite a relationship already present. Such things should be developed, not confessed.

Just ask if she wants to go check out _____ for lunch/coffee/after supper dessert...usually if she does like actually you can pretty much butcher the whole 'ask her out for a date' thing and as long as you get the impression across she'll accept

Rich

 

[CharmaLeo]

First of all a "date" is too fukcing formal. What the hell do you in a date. Look for the chemistry for the magical moment. Don't go on dates just work her wherever you are at the moment. Whenever you are in front of her you are already in a date, so make the most of it.

 

[flexion_]

DO NOT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.

Just get her number and call her and have a fun time!

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

"come clean"? Are you ashamed of this?

No!

Just ask to hang out with her and see where things go. Don't try to set up a formal structure for the relationship and don't tell her how you feel. Your actions will speak louder.