"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should i just come clean?

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nestea16

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Theres this girl that Ive kinda had oneitis for a little bit and im pretty sure she knows I like her but shes kinda shy herself. Now tomorrow Im going to make my move, should I ask her on a date or just tell her how i feel? I know I shouldn't tell her how I feel but shes a nice quiet shy girl so Im not sure. Ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reccomend not telling her how you feel....convo's like that have such bad potential if there isnt quite a relationship already present. Such things should be developed, not confessed.

Just ask if she wants to go check out _____ for lunch/coffee/after supper dessert...usually if she does like actually you can pretty much butcher the whole 'ask her out for a date' thing and as long as you get the impression across she'll accept

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First of all a "date" is too fukcing formal. What the hell do you in a date. Look for the chemistry for the magical moment. Don't go on dates just work her wherever you are at the moment. Whenever you are in front of her you are already in a date, so make the most of it.
 
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DO NOT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.

Just get her number and call her and have a fun time!
 
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I'm Joe Dirt

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"come clean"? Are you ashamed of this?

No!

Just ask to hang out with her and see where things go. Don't try to set up a formal structure for the relationship and don't tell her how you feel. Your actions will speak louder.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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