I ended up meeting a girl at a club the other night (I'd say she's about a 6 or 7, not insanely hot but not bad). At the end of the night she asked me what I was doing on the weekend. I have a party I'm going to and I told her that and invited her. We exchanged numbers (well, she used my phone to call hers) and when I left she told me to text her. The only thing is that I forgot that one of my friends is supposed to introduce me to this one really hot girl at the party. I'm not sure whether or not to invite the girl from the other night now. What do you guys think?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Should I invite this girl to this party
- Thread starter Kal0051
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Alexander the Great
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You know Kal, it really strikes me that you have to come here and ask us about what to do.
What do you think is best? I think you already know.
What do you think is best? I think you already know.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
It's usually best to remain a free agent at a party rather than have to babysit a girl you invited because she doesn't know anyone else there besides you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah I'm going to agree with TheBucketOfTruth on this one. I've brought girls to parties before and then thought, damn, plenty of hotter girls here. If you want to hang out with this girl in particular in a party atmosphere, take her out to a bar or something.TheBucketOfTruth said: