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Should I invite this girl to this party

Kal0051

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I ended up meeting a girl at a club the other night (I'd say she's about a 6 or 7, not insanely hot but not bad). At the end of the night she asked me what I was doing on the weekend. I have a party I'm going to and I told her that and invited her. We exchanged numbers (well, she used my phone to call hers) and when I left she told me to text her. The only thing is that I forgot that one of my friends is supposed to introduce me to this one really hot girl at the party. I'm not sure whether or not to invite the girl from the other night now. What do you guys think?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Julian

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dont bring sand to the beach
 
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You know Kal, it really strikes me that you have to come here and ask us about what to do.

What do you think is best? I think you already know. ;)
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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It's usually best to remain a free agent at a party rather than have to babysit a girl you invited because she doesn't know anyone else there besides you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Evzone

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TheBucketOfTruth said:
It's usually best to remain a free agent at a party rather than have to babysit a girl you invited because she doesn't know anyone else there besides you.
Yeah I'm going to agree with TheBucketOfTruth on this one. I've brought girls to parties before and then thought, damn, plenty of hotter girls here. If you want to hang out with this girl in particular in a party atmosphere, take her out to a bar or something.
 

trv26

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Also, why makes life difficult for yourself by taking her a place where there's a chance she's going to get hit on by other guys?
 
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