So Long story short, I met these 4 girls randomly, got to know there names and chatted a bit but nothing came out of it. A week later I see 2 of the girls and they are drunk and excited and tell me one of the other girls I met with them(HB7) thought I was really hot and said she was flirting with me but I must not have noticed. Anyways they force me to take her number. Then for the next week or so we texted each other a few times and we were only open on opposite nights. Then I called her and she was like "Oh how come you didn't respond to my texts the last couple of days(It had been like 4 days since the last text). Anways we chit-chatted and concluded that her phone was messed up or something, but she was really bummed out because she thought I had been ignoring her.
So after that we meet up to have some drinks at a local bar, but we were both with groups of exclusive friends, and she could only stay for 30 minutes becasue of something the next morning but said she wanted to meet up again and wanted me to call her, and she apologized that she had been busy before when I initially texted her the first few times.
So now what do I do? Should I invite her to a sober date, something like dinner and some kind of activitiy. Or should I do something like invite her out for drinks again. Or should I Just call her up and say hey lets cook or order dinner at my house and watch a movie and try to escalate or what.
Since her drunk friends gave her level of interest away as very high when they gave me her number, I feel like I could escalate fairly easily. However she might put of the anti-slut defense, since in meeting her I realized we have a few mutual friends.
So after that we meet up to have some drinks at a local bar, but we were both with groups of exclusive friends, and she could only stay for 30 minutes becasue of something the next morning but said she wanted to meet up again and wanted me to call her, and she apologized that she had been busy before when I initially texted her the first few times.
So now what do I do? Should I invite her to a sober date, something like dinner and some kind of activitiy. Or should I do something like invite her out for drinks again. Or should I Just call her up and say hey lets cook or order dinner at my house and watch a movie and try to escalate or what.
Since her drunk friends gave her level of interest away as very high when they gave me her number, I feel like I could escalate fairly easily. However she might put of the anti-slut defense, since in meeting her I realized we have a few mutual friends.
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