“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Should I IM her?

Viper

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Well, here's the situation, I found the MySpace of this hot girl from school named Marissa, who's MySpace just happens to contain her AIM address and I want to know, do you guys think I should IM her? We go to the same school, but she has no idea who I am and I don't want to seem like a stalker, by IMing her without introducing her to myself; the fact that my AIM is "XIXIoriYagamaXIX", doesn't help either.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ4Real

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Get to know her first...meet her in person and get her AIM.
 

Citre

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Do not IM her if you do not know her and she has no clue who you are.
 

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Whats your myspace?? I wanna see what you look like.
 

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Viper, judging from your name, you must watch anime.

Whatever you do don't IM her without meeting her in person first, it is creepy if you IM her first.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Real Ice Man

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If you ever want to have a chance with this girl, don't IM her EVER. I'm not kidding. AIM=anti-challenge
 

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For all DJs..

AIM-An Idiotic Monstrosity
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These things will ruin your chances,believe me.

For the threadstarter,no you shouldn't talk to her on IM.Why don't you just meet her in person,man?If you IM her she'll just think of you as some nerd who stumbles upon profiles and tries to hit girls.There would be a million mistakes made if you IM her before meeting her in person and getting acquainted.Also,she may give you a bad name with her girl-friends..'Hey this guy he talked to me on IM,but he doesnt know me.Weird guy!'

I know,talking to her on IM would make things seem easy for you..But you'll only be heading for one place from there on..Nowhere!

So,just talk to her in person if you wanna start off something with her.Thats much,much better.
 

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Hmm I've realized that all the girls that I have been really successful with don't have AIM. Coincidence? No. From now on I use AIM only for scheduling with my mates, no more giving out my screen name.
 

six-foot AZN '05

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Never treat IM as your number. Not the same. 'Course you could use the IM as a backup if a girl wont leave you alone... "heres my AIM, now dont IM me" and make sure she cant get your number from someone else.
 
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