"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i like this girl and now were friends and i know she likes me.
should i ignore her for a while to jet her attention or
smother her with more attention i dont know which way to go
and now i think im stuck in the friend zone. I would have asked her out before but she had a bf i think she still has one but i
dident want to bring it up. what do i do now
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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im bascicly screwd right
 
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Try to keep yourself from making any contact or even eye contact from her as much as possible for a day or 2.

Take a look if she wants you as a friend or more than a friend, you'll probably tell by the way she acts when you don't talk to her for 2 days.

After that, you can do whatever you did normally with her.

MAKE SURE you keep yourself busy. No matter what it is your doing. Start conversations with other people and if she's around make sure your talking with other people. When your stuck somewhere you know she hangs out at, make sure you get whatever you need and leave quick.

Post whatever happens and GL.
 
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Make your presence welcome again by becoming "rare" and having a life that doesn't focus on her.

Good Luck:cool:
 
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