"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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should i ignore her

cablecow15

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i like this girl and now were friends and i know she likes me.
should i ignore her for a while to jet her attention or
smother her with more attention i dont know which way to go
and now i think im stuck in the friend zone. I would have asked her out before but she had a bf i think she still has one but i
dident want to bring it up. what do i do now
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cablecow15

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im bascicly screwd right
 

bambino

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Try to keep yourself from making any contact or even eye contact from her as much as possible for a day or 2.

Take a look if she wants you as a friend or more than a friend, you'll probably tell by the way she acts when you don't talk to her for 2 days.

After that, you can do whatever you did normally with her.

MAKE SURE you keep yourself busy. No matter what it is your doing. Start conversations with other people and if she's around make sure your talking with other people. When your stuck somewhere you know she hangs out at, make sure you get whatever you need and leave quick.

Post whatever happens and GL.
 

DJ4Real

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Make your presence welcome again by becoming "rare" and having a life that doesn't focus on her.

Good Luck:cool:
 
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