“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Should I hit her up? tricky situation - Need advice

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
Hi there fellas

Been a while, had vacation, hitting the gym and im back on my grind again on work.
Today I had a customer buying a big product in my shop.

She spent a lot of money at my shop today, a rennovation in her house.

My secretary talked to her and got her at my desk to sit down and talk about the product. The girl and I had a good vibe immediatley, she trusted me in everything and she told me after 1.5 hours of drawing everything for her that she trusts me, she called her dad and told him that she had a good feeling and I told her I helped her good in the price and she bought the goods.

Anyway during the conversation she told me she divorced from her husband and is going to rent a house with her daughter. She found out during the conversation that I'm the boss and she looked impressed by that and I saw how she noticed how my personnel treats me (with respect).

The thing is I (lied) told her that I broke up with my gf aswell and that I understood her position and that it was a good move to chose for herself. She declared that she really needed this divorce because of the behavior of her ex. Anyway I didn't ask nothing more and the feeling was great from me and her. She also granted me the project in her house I'm going to deliver, it was above her budget but she went along with it.

The thing is; She's my type, a little short, fat butt, classy, blonde with the big eyes. A litttlee bit fat but a beauty, those type of girls always like me.

I got her phone number, should I text her that I had a good convo and invite her for drinks? I really got a good feeling that she will accept. I feel that she was attracted, and ofc she's going to think that I got money. My goal is only f*cking her, keeping her as a plate ofc.

Any ideas?

Maybe it's better to do it after the project is done also. Any ideas?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Serenity

Moderator
Joined
Aug 19, 2013
Messages
5,143
Reaction score
5,049
Age
34
Location
Eye of the storm
I got her phone number, should I text her that I had a good convo and invite her for drinks?
God no! Using a number you got while doing business for something like that is very unprofessional.

In this setting she pretty much has to come on to you.
 

BeExcellent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2015
Messages
5,366
Reaction score
7,816
Age
57
Good to see you @Gambino !

After the job is complete dear, not before. And keep in mind even if you go out with her after you finish the project that she can affect your professional reputation, so you'll need to keep things on the level. She could network you into other jobs or she could hose your reputation. Even if you deliver the goods on her job (professionally - Duh). Tread carefully here stud. You know the dealio.
 
Top