"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I hit her up? tricky situation - Need advice

TheGambino

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Hi there fellas

Been a while, had vacation, hitting the gym and im back on my grind again on work.
Today I had a customer buying a big product in my shop.

She spent a lot of money at my shop today, a rennovation in her house.

My secretary talked to her and got her at my desk to sit down and talk about the product. The girl and I had a good vibe immediatley, she trusted me in everything and she told me after 1.5 hours of drawing everything for her that she trusts me, she called her dad and told him that she had a good feeling and I told her I helped her good in the price and she bought the goods.

Anyway during the conversation she told me she divorced from her husband and is going to rent a house with her daughter. She found out during the conversation that I'm the boss and she looked impressed by that and I saw how she noticed how my personnel treats me (with respect).

The thing is I (lied) told her that I broke up with my gf aswell and that I understood her position and that it was a good move to chose for herself. She declared that she really needed this divorce because of the behavior of her ex. Anyway I didn't ask nothing more and the feeling was great from me and her. She also granted me the project in her house I'm going to deliver, it was above her budget but she went along with it.

The thing is; She's my type, a little short, fat butt, classy, blonde with the big eyes. A litttlee bit fat but a beauty, those type of girls always like me.

I got her phone number, should I text her that I had a good convo and invite her for drinks? I really got a good feeling that she will accept. I feel that she was attracted, and ofc she's going to think that I got money. My goal is only f*cking her, keeping her as a plate ofc.

Any ideas?

Maybe it's better to do it after the project is done also. Any ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I got her phone number, should I text her that I had a good convo and invite her for drinks?
God no! Using a number you got while doing business for something like that is very unprofessional.

In this setting she pretty much has to come on to you.
 

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Good to see you @Gambino !

After the job is complete dear, not before. And keep in mind even if you go out with her after you finish the project that she can affect your professional reputation, so you'll need to keep things on the level. She could network you into other jobs or she could hose your reputation. Even if you deliver the goods on her job (professionally - Duh). Tread carefully here stud. You know the dealio.
 
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