Dhoulmagus
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Just found out that girl is talking some **** about me cause i didnt make a move 
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To those of you who didn't give a second thought to this post, you better read it again. It's in bold for a reason.Maximus Rex said:Everybody seems to be glazing over the "She was also drunk," part. You did the right thing bruh. If you would have engaged in coitus with ole girl, then she woke up with "wh*re's regret," you would have a created on hell of a problem for yourself, because you would have gotten charged with rape and more than likely convicted.
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, EVER, NEVER had sex with a woman who has had more than three alcoholic beverages. We live in a society that women are rarely held accountable for the situations that they put themselves in and you have to protect yourself from possibly being made a scapegoat.
The place I see when you were in error was you stayed when was in drunken state and everybody was trying to know this lush carnally. When you saw that every man there was trying to indulge in coitus with an inebriated woman, that was your cue to leave. The last thing you need is to called as a prosecution witness in a gang rape trial or God forbid, being indicted on a rape charge by an overzealous prosecutor for just merely being there.
It's a lose lose situation. I can't do anything cause she's drunk and she talks **** about me the following day.MillionBillionaire said:To those of you who didn't give a second thought to this post, you better read it again. It's in bold for a reason.
Girls will do this shytt for money and attention. Without even blinking. :cuss:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gut_79 said:Congrats, you did the right thing. You should always turn down girls who are too easy. I bet she carries multiple STDs. You dodged a bullet. Obviously low quality girl who´s even talking **** about you. Don´t worry about that, you have more value than her and she knows it. There is always something wrong if a girl puts herself on a platter like that.