Dhoulmagus
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Just found out that girl is talking some **** about me cause i didnt make a move 
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
To those of you who didn't give a second thought to this post, you better read it again. It's in bold for a reason.Maximus Rex said:Everybody seems to be glazing over the "She was also drunk," part. You did the right thing bruh. If you would have engaged in coitus with ole girl, then she woke up with "wh*re's regret," you would have a created on hell of a problem for yourself, because you would have gotten charged with rape and more than likely convicted.
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, EVER, NEVER had sex with a woman who has had more than three alcoholic beverages. We live in a society that women are rarely held accountable for the situations that they put themselves in and you have to protect yourself from possibly being made a scapegoat.
The place I see when you were in error was you stayed when was in drunken state and everybody was trying to know this lush carnally. When you saw that every man there was trying to indulge in coitus with an inebriated woman, that was your cue to leave. The last thing you need is to called as a prosecution witness in a gang rape trial or God forbid, being indicted on a rape charge by an overzealous prosecutor for just merely being there.
It's a lose lose situation. I can't do anything cause she's drunk and she talks **** about me the following day.MillionBillionaire said:To those of you who didn't give a second thought to this post, you better read it again. It's in bold for a reason.
Girls will do this shytt for money and attention. Without even blinking. :cuss:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gut_79 said:Congrats, you did the right thing. You should always turn down girls who are too easy. I bet she carries multiple STDs. You dodged a bullet. Obviously low quality girl who´s even talking **** about you. Don´t worry about that, you have more value than her and she knows it. There is always something wrong if a girl puts herself on a platter like that.