"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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freefallin2147: So what do you do

B00: I am a supervisor in a business office for a private practice medical group

LiLB00: lol...mouthful

freefallin2147: lol was just about to say that

freefallin2147: so you stand around all day and yell at people!
freefallin2147: i knew you were mean
LiLB00: AWWW
LiLB00: y is that???

freefallin2147: because you little girls are usally the ones with all the attitude lol

LiLB00: pocos per locos

freefallin2147: Ive been to sandys in temple a few times to play pool, Have you been there

LiLB00: I just heard that on the boxing match I watched on Saturday...when Diaz went down

LiLB00: YES....the guy I dated went there....
LiLB00: ya probably know him

freefallin2147: its possible but you were saying about boxing?

LiLB00: the boxing match on Saturday....Pac...I can't spell it and Diaz...they were saying "pocos per locos" - small but crazu

LiLB00: *crazy
LiLB00: I LOVE boxing
LiLB00: it was HBO

freefallin2147: oh ok

LiLB00: Zab Judah is up in two weeks
LiLB00: pay per view

freefallin2147: ya i like boxing as well not into that UFC fighting everyone else is so crazy about

LiLB00: I like that too
freefallin2147: You come to killeen much?

LiLB00: sometimes....just to go to clubs when I do...if I go to bar it's DuckTavern
LiLB00: haven't been in awhile
LiLB00: got booted from Starlite last friday...the guys we were with got stupid

freefallin2147: Ya that club is strict on people acting a fool
freefallin2147: usally a younger crowd in there i dont go much
freefallin2147: My name is mike and yours'

LiLB00: Marisa...and yeah, I HATE to go there...I wanted to go to Wild Country

LiLB00: but the girls'whose bday it was wanted to go to that STUPID place

LiLB00: and yes there are kIDS
LiLB00: KIDS
LiLB00: how old are you???

freefallin2147: i turned 28 in may

LiLB00: lol...well, I am 32 and getting hit on by a 19 yr old who can't buy you a beer is SAD

freefallin2147: haha would you like a DR.pepper baby? Then maybe after we can kick it at my parents house

LiLB00: NOT funny
freefallin2147: Well Marisa i have to run.. Was fun talking with you
LiLB00: you too...take it easy
*** LiLB00's IC window is closed
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hate online game....but if you must....

The girl gave you SEVERAL opportunities to invite her out to hang. She mentioned the ppv fight, the bar she wants to go to, etc...you could quite possibly have set something up and then extracted her phone number.

But don't feel too bad, b/c it's the internet, and girls tend to use that for AW-ing anyway.
 

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Hey would nt it be better to tell her "hey my PC is going to reboot or restart or whatever.
And get here over your house and close her...for real.
 
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Jeffst1980 said:
I hate online game....but if you must....

The girl gave you SEVERAL opportunities to invite her out to hang. She mentioned the ppv fight, the bar she wants to go to, etc...you could quite possibly have set something up and then extracted her phone number.

But don't feel too bad, b/c it's the internet, and girls tend to use that for AW-ing anyway.
I was aware of the slots she gave me to try and close but i just met her today. Maybe im being a AFC but i duno didnt want to come off desprate. Gona make my move friday
 

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I cringe when I read these things...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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