Today I was fooling around with my friend in the cafeteria and he pushed me so I pushed him back a little harder(I workout) and he flew and hit a girl with his elbow in the mouth.She was bleeding (not hard, a few drops). She didn't start to cry but just laughed(prolly nervous).My question is should I have apologised or even number closed(or better yet not). I saw the girl for the first time and shes old as me (19).The worst thing she was cute and I was cracking up all the time.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
should I have apologised to this poor girl?
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Let's see. You caused him to knock into her, which caused her to start bleeding... and you wonder if you should apologize? God, we do have some bright people on here, don't we... 
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This shows how this site f's up people's heads.
You knocked your buddy back into this girl and busted her lip and the only thing you can think about is, "Should I #close her?"
Yes you should've apologized. She was an innocent victim of your shenanigans. I would've laughed too, though. It IS a funny set of circumstances. You don't have to kiss her ass or make it up to her or anything, but a "sorry" would've been in order. And I think closing her would have been a bad idea at that point unless she thought it was hilarious too.
You knocked your buddy back into this girl and busted her lip and the only thing you can think about is, "Should I #close her?"
Yes you should've apologized. She was an innocent victim of your shenanigans. I would've laughed too, though. It IS a funny set of circumstances. You don't have to kiss her ass or make it up to her or anything, but a "sorry" would've been in order. And I think closing her would have been a bad idea at that point unless she thought it was hilarious too.
Hahah, true!
I think maybe I wouldn't have apologized her in that point if I would see her later..
But what I would do is to apologize her later like "sorry about the lip thing ..."
(that ... was to question what her name is if you want to take it from there
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I would have apologised then sucked her blood. Oh sh1t, now I'm really turned on.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.