Today I was fooling around with my friend in the cafeteria and he pushed me so I pushed him back a little harder(I workout) and he flew and hit a girl with his elbow in the mouth.She was bleeding (not hard, a few drops). She didn't start to cry but just laughed(prolly nervous).My question is should I have apologised or even number closed(or better yet not). I saw the girl for the first time and shes old as me (19).The worst thing she was cute and I was cracking up all the time.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
should I have apologised to this poor girl?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
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Let's see. You caused him to knock into her, which caused her to start bleeding... and you wonder if you should apologize? God, we do have some bright people on here, don't we... 
squirrels
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This shows how this site f's up people's heads.
You knocked your buddy back into this girl and busted her lip and the only thing you can think about is, "Should I #close her?"
Yes you should've apologized. She was an innocent victim of your shenanigans. I would've laughed too, though. It IS a funny set of circumstances. You don't have to kiss her ass or make it up to her or anything, but a "sorry" would've been in order. And I think closing her would have been a bad idea at that point unless she thought it was hilarious too.
You knocked your buddy back into this girl and busted her lip and the only thing you can think about is, "Should I #close her?"
Yes you should've apologized. She was an innocent victim of your shenanigans. I would've laughed too, though. It IS a funny set of circumstances. You don't have to kiss her ass or make it up to her or anything, but a "sorry" would've been in order. And I think closing her would have been a bad idea at that point unless she thought it was hilarious too.
Hahah, true!
I think maybe I wouldn't have apologized her in that point if I would see her later..
But what I would do is to apologize her later like "sorry about the lip thing ..."
(that ... was to question what her name is if you want to take it from there
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I would have apologised then sucked her blood. Oh sh1t, now I'm really turned on.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.